So if we’ve ever had sex, and you were drunk or high (you know who you are), turns out I raped you!
If you did not report this to the authorities, you are one of the unreported rapes.
Isn’t that interesting? Turns out I’ve been a rapist this whole time and I had NO IDEA!
Question for thought: If two people are drunk and they fuck, are they raping each other? Can both parties be found guilty of rape and go to jail?
This idea that having sex with a drunk person is equal to rape is absolutely ridiculous.
Look, if someone says no (or more importantly, nothing), and they end up with a dick in them, that is rape. But if someone knowingly imbibes a substance that turns a no into a yes, then that is on them and no one else.
I’m tired of the people involved in alcohol culture getting to control the entirety of etiquette because they want to get fucked up and the world around them is supposed to cater to that. Fuck that horseshit. It’s like people putting on blindfolds, going for a drive, and expecting everyone else to get out of your way. It doesn’t work that way.
If getting drunk gets you on your back, then. Don’t. Get. Drunk.
I’m fascinated with the idea of roofieing(???) people. Not that I want to do it, but how does the process work? Does the guy go to bars alone? If he does, how does he get the girls out? He must seem like a creepy weirdo the whole time. Do the bartenders not see this? Do they not care? If he comes with friends, do they know what he’s doing? Do they care? Are there roving bands of rapists going into bars and leaving with a bunch of sleepers?
A Real Question
How is having sex with a drunk girl considered rape?
This is a real question, and I’m honestly curious about it.
You see, I don’t drink. I’ve never been drunk. I was buzzed one time and that was it. So I don’t understand.
Now I’m not talking passed-out, doesn’t remember her name drunk. Fucking a girl like that is absolutely rape.
But I keep seeing things like “It’s not consent if she’s under the influence.” Well, why not? She chose to drink, and she’s still responsible for the decisions she makes while she’s drunk. If she says yes to sex when she’s drunk, why doesn’t the yes count? I honestly do not understand and would like some help here. If you drive a car drunk, you’re responsible for making the decision and driving the car? If you rob a person while drunk, you’re still responsible for the crime, right? Then why are you not responsible for your own consent when you’re drinking? And if you’re opening your legs when you don’t to because you’re drunk, shouldn’t you stop drinking?
For the record, I’ve only had sex with one drunk girl in my whole life. I used to make out with drunk girls until a bunch of people started threatening to beat me up so I stopped. I didn’t understand then and I don’t understand it now.
I guess you can mark off the “Educate me!” square on Feminist Bingo.
You know what?
The idea that the football player rapists didn’t realize what they were doing is complete and utter bullshit. They were doing it to get back at her for some perceived slight!
You don’t “get back” at someone by sending them fucking flowers. They were clear that what they were doing was hurtful because the intent was to hurt her. One kid tweeted that Rape Me was the song of the night.
So don’t fucking sit there and tell me that these kids didn’t know they were raping her.
Men get raped by women. It happens. Men suffer from body issues. Men push these things down because society tells us that we’re not supposed to talk about it or be affected by it. Stop writing off the male experience as an episode of Mad Men.
If feminists continue to pretend that men are the villains in a children’s cartoon, women will never be equal.
Can anyone enlighten me on the rape v homosexuality argument?
I was reading tumblr and saw a post along the lines of
“if rapists can restrain from their ‘urges’ because it’s a choice, then so can homosexuals. Being homosexual is a choice, just like being heterosexual and just like raping people.”
I feel like i’m overlooking a serious aspect of this, because i really can’t see why this is incorrect.
So I left a calm and reasoned ask in this kid’s ask box. But this is my blog. So I don’t have to be calm and reasoned here.
THIS WILL PROBABLY BE VERY TRIGGERING
You are overlooking a very serious aspect of this. That very serious aspect is that you’re a fucking moron who should really just clock out of life altogether. That’s not a joke. You really should kill yourself. If you cannot see the difference between a RAPIST and a HOMOSEXUAL then you are literally too stupid to be fucking alive on this planet.
You see, a RAPIST is someone who steals from people. A RAPIST is someone who hurts people. RAPISTS have sex with people against their will. A rapist will break into your house, throw your mother down onto the kitchen floor, and forcibly enter her. I want you to really get that fucking image in your head. Your mother is on the floor. She is crying. She is frightened. No one is coming to help her. A man’s hands grip her throat to the point where she will have bruises on her neck. He is thrusting into her. It’s painful, because she’s not wet. He ejaculates inside of her. She may be pregnant. What happens then? Does your mother have an abortion, or does she carry the child to term and you have a rape baby as a brother and your dad has to raise this despicable human’s offspring. She may have an STD like herpes or even AIDS now. After its over, she will have problems even hugging you, let alone making love to your father. Their marriage suffers, and probably ends. This happens to your mother. Are your picturing these events? And you know what? It’s not about sex. It’s about power. The rapist didn’t think your mom was hot. He didn’t rape her because of her sexy sexy housedress or whatever the fuck it is she wears. He raped her for power. He raped her because he knew the events would unfold as I’ve told them, and he wanted to be their catalyst. He didn’t want to fuck, he wanted to destroy.
A homosexual is someone who loves members of the same sex. They kiss, they hug, they hold hands. Now you say that they can fight their urges. They could! But why the fuck should they? If one penis loves another penis, who fucking cares?
So if you want to think about in simple terms (which I feel would be best for your poor, feeble mind), rape is about violence, homosexuality is about hugging.
I don’t understand why they say women are punished in other countries by being forced to marry their rapists. That’s not true. The raper is punished by having to marry their rapee. Can you imagine how she would hold that shit over your head for like, ever? You know how women can hold a grudge! AM I RIGHT?!